43-year-old Tony Ahn, “I have only three stepmothers, I’m afraid of repeating divorce and becoming like my father” (Oh Eun-young’s Golden Counseling Center)

[스포츠서울 | 박효실기자] Singer and producer Tony Ahn (43) confessed that he was afraid of getting married for fear that he would resemble his father.

It was the trauma he experienced as a child growing up in poverty under his father, who repeatedly divorced and remarried.

Tony An, who appeared on Channel A’s ‘Oh Eun-young’s Golden Counseling Center’, which was broadcast on the 29th, said, “Will I be able to live well after getting married? I am worried about whether I will become a good husband and father.”

Born in 1978, Tony An is 43 years old. In the 25 years of her career in the entertainment industry, there were often rumors of dating, but it did not lead to marriage.

Oh Eun-young, who heard his concerns, asked about his parents’ marriage, and he said, “I divorced when I was 6 years old. I don’t remember how we broke up, but I liked it. It was very difficult and terrifying for my parents to fight. “He said.

It seems that Tony An’s marriage life during his childhood was chaotic enough to view divorce as a positive thing. After the divorce of his parents, Tony An emigrated to the United States with his father, where his father remarried and divorced repeatedly, and said that his stepmother changed three times.

The fact that his parents were unable to form a stable relationship at a young age may have fueled vague fears about married life.

He said, “After seeing so many divorces and remarriages, I wondered if this could happen to me as well.” There was also a story that he could only come home late to avoid his father, who became rough when he drank alcohol.

Tony An said, “I heard that you can’t cheat on blood, but while I was drinking alcohol, I looked in the mirror and saw my father’s image in the mirror. But seeing me repeating such a drinking habit, I was very afraid.”

His father died in 2011 while battling cancer. Tony An, who could not form a sufficient attachment with his father, revealed that he has depression and panic disorder.

Eun-young Oh said, “Tony An is a different person from his father. The experiences and paths of life are different. So, the starting point will be different and the point of reaching it will be different.”