Crush on Priest: Should You Confess?
- In her latest advice column, Dear Abby addresses readers' relationship quandaries, including an unexpected crush and a pet peeve involving pets in the bedroom.
- One reader, "Crushing on the Coast," confessed too developing a crush on a Catholic priest she befriended.
- Another reader,"Sleeping Solo in Oregon," wrote about a conflict with her boyfriend,Grant,regarding his dogs sleeping in his bed.
wondering if you should confess your feelings? Dear Abby tackles the complex issue of a “crush on a priest,” offering advice on navigating this sensitive situation gracefully. This week, Abby delves into the quandaries of relationships, helping readers find clarity amidst confusion stemming from unexpected feelings and, in another letter, a furry dilemma: dogs in the bedroom. If you’re wrestling with matters of the heart,Abby’s wisdom is a beacon.News Directory 3 offers this advice as well as further insight into modern relationships. Abby’s counsel, built on common sense and compassion, guides readers through potential landmines, advocating for open communication to resolve conflicts. Discover what’s next as she tackles the next round of advice.
Dear Abby on Crushes and Canine Co-Sleeping: Relationship Advice
updated May 28, 2025
In her latest advice column, Dear Abby addresses readers’ relationship quandaries, including an unexpected crush and a pet peeve involving pets in the bedroom. Navigating relationships can be tricky, and Abby’s insights offer a fresh viewpoint on these common issues.
One reader, “Crushing on the Coast,” confessed too developing a crush on a Catholic priest she befriended. They bonded during English conversation lessons and maintained contact after he returned to his home country.Despite enjoying their friendship, she feels guilty about her unreciprocated feelings and wonders if she should reveal them, risking the relationship. Abby suggests keeping the secret unless it negatively impacts other relationships.
Another reader,”Sleeping Solo in Oregon,” wrote about a conflict with her boyfriend,Grant,regarding his dogs sleeping in his bed. Recently divorced after 37 years,she loves everything about Grant except his co-sleeping canines. Her own dog is relegated to the floor, and she finds Grant’s bed unhygienic. She avoids sleeping over, which creates distance in their relationship. Abby suggests grant temporarily move to the guest room instead of disrupting his dogs’ long-established routine.
“As long as your ‘bit of a crush’ doesn’t have a negative impact on the rest of your life, I see no reason to burden the priest with this secret,” Abby wrote.
Abby stated, “I think your boyfriend is right. As Grant has habituated his dogs to sleeping in his bed (not to mention that the bed is filthy), I don’t think it would be practical to disrupt them at this stage of their lives.”
What’s next
Readers facing similar dilemmas can find solace in Abby’s thoughtful responses, reminding them that open dialog and compromise are key to resolving relationship challenges.Consider seeking professional guidance for personalized advice on navigating complex situations involving crushes, pets, and intimacy.