Francesca, 12, Dies Days After Plea to Other Children: “Don’t Give up”
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Published December 23, 2025, 23:05:54 PM EST
A Brief Respite and a Grim Diagnosis
Francesca, a 12-year-old girl battling a severe illness, experienced rare moments of normalcy, finding temporary relief from her condition. However, her health had drastically deteriorated, requiring constant oxygen support and tube feeding. Her mother revealed the devastating extent of the disease: a tumor had enveloped eighty percent of Francesca’s lungs, leaving her with limited capacity to breathe.
The medical team delivered a heartbreaking prognosis.According to her mother, doctors and nurses resolute there were no further treatment options available, advising the family to prepare for the certain: ”Just go home.”
Facing Mortality with Courage and Honesty
Despite the grim outlook, Francesca displayed remarkable resilience and a complex emotional landscape. In conversation with Jurre, as reported by NPO Start, she alternated between defiant optimism and stark acceptance.”Sometimes I’m mentally positive and I think: what do I care? I’m just going to live… Maybe, maybe not. We can’t see into the future,” she stated. Yet, she also acknowledged the reality of her situation, admitting, “Then I have the thought in my head: I am going to die. There is there’s no doubt whatsoever about that.”
The family openly discussed death, prioritizing honest dialog. Francesca’s mother emphasized the importance of expressing everyone’s feelings: “I think it is important to express what Francesca thinks, what I think and what Francesca’s father thinks.” Her father found solace in his faith, praying frequently and finding joy even amidst profound sorrow.
A Final Farewell and a Powerful Message
The emotional weight of the conversation became overwhelming for francesca, who experienced difficulty breathing. She requested to move to the living room with her mother. During a poignant goodbye with Jurre, Francesca shared a final, impactful message. ”And if you still have to run a programme for the Princess Máxima center, just tell the children: ‘Don’t give up.'” Jurre, deeply moved, responded, “You didn’t do that either.”
Tragically, Francesca passed away just four days after this conversation, at the age of 12.
The Princess Máxima Center and Pediatric Cancer in the Netherlands
The Princess Máxima Center (Prinses Máxima Centrum voor kinderoncologie) is the national oncology center for children in the Netherlands,dedicated to research and treatment of childhood cancer Princess Máxima Center. The center aims to improve survival rates and quality of life for children diagnosed with cancer.
Childhood cancer rates in the netherlands are comparable to other European countries, with leukemia, brain tumors, and lymphomas being among the most common types. the five-year survival rate for childhood cancer in the Netherlands is approximately 80%, but varies significantly depending on the type of cancer. Kankeronderzoek.nl
Remembering Francesca
Francesca’s story, as highlighted in Can’t be made small (available on NPO Start), serves as a powerful reminder of the courage and resilience of children facing life-threatening illnesses. Her final message – “Don’t give up” - is a testament to her unwavering spirit and a source of inspiration for others.
