Kiara Lord, a contestant on the Hungarian reality dating show A Nagy Ő (The Bachelor), has responded to a wave of negative comments directed at her, addressing both criticism stemming from her participation in the series and her previous work as an adult film performer. Lord addressed the comments in a TikTok video, offering advice to her followers on navigating online negativity.
The reality star’s response comes after facing scrutiny following her appearance on the show, and particularly after interactions with fellow contestants Böbe and Melinda, who both publicly criticized her. Lord acknowledged receiving harsh feedback, but emphasized her acceptance of her own choices and career path.
“The comments that really hit home are the ones you know are true,” Lord stated in the video. “But I consider myself a good person. Yes, my work is what it is, but I’m not ashamed of it. That’s the significant difference – they’re trying to hurt me with something I’m not ashamed of. It’s as if I wasn’t the main character in these films. My thinking and sexuality may not be the average person’s, but these things are perfectly acceptable to me. I wanted to try them, and I don’t consider them degrading or distasteful. Obviously, it’s not for everyone.”
Lord further clarified her stance on her past work, stating she doesn’t hide or feel embarrassed by the films she’s made. “I’m proud of them, however morbid that may sound,” she said. She explained that she generally doesn’t delete negative comments, only those containing excessively vulgar language that she doesn’t want younger audiences to see, preferring instead to respond directly.
The contestant also touched on the dynamic between public figures and online criticism. “Anyone who appears in the public eye has to accept that this can happen. I accept that I’m putting myself out there, and yes, people can come at me, because I can handle it, it doesn’t cause a problem,” she said. She contrasted this with the behavior of those who engage in online negativity, suggesting it often stems from personal frustration. “Those who are okay with their lives won’t bother to trash talk in the comments. Those who are frustrated or unhappy will.”
Lord also addressed the scrutiny surrounding plastic surgery, stating she openly acknowledges having undergone procedures. She shared a previous photo of herself before the procedures, embracing transparency about her physical changes.
This isn’t the first instance of controversy surrounding body image and criticism within the Bachelor franchise. Reports from indicate that body shaming has been a recurring issue, with past contestants like Victoria Larson of the American version of the show facing similar attacks. In , Shanae Ankney, a contestant on Clayton Echard’s season, was subjected to particularly harsh criticism during the “Women Tell All” special, with one participant reportedly telling her she looked like she was “wearing a diaper.” This incident sparked backlash from viewers and members of Bachelor Nation, who deemed the comments unacceptable.
Similarly, Victoria Larson responded to body-shaming comments made by friends of Matt James, the Bachelor from her season, highlighting the prevalence of such attacks even within the inner circles of the show. Former Bachelor Nick Viall also experienced negative reactions to a post-workout photo, receiving comments about his weight and physique, prompting him to reflect on the pressures of body image in the public eye.
Lord’s response reflects a growing trend of reality television participants actively confronting online harassment and reclaiming narratives surrounding their bodies and choices. Her willingness to address the criticism head-on, and her unapologetic stance on her career, positions her as a figure who is challenging conventional expectations and promoting self-acceptance within the often-critical landscape of reality television and social media.
