Parental Workload & Communication Impact on Children’s Psychology
The Declining “family Wig” and Its Impact on Mental Health
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Updated September 18, 2025, 07:17:21
The Erosion of family Rituals
The consistent, shared routines that once defined Egyptian families are diminishing, according to Dr. Shaima Talkhan, a consultant in mental health and family counseling.Dr. Talkhan notes that pressures from work,constant preoccupation,and increased social media use are contributing to the loss of these traditions,which she refers to as the “family’s wig.”
Historically, Egyptian families were characterized by predictable daily gatherings, such as fathers returning home at a set time for lunch and subsequent shared time. These patterns are becoming less common due to evolving lifestyles and increased obligations.
Psychological Impact on Children
The absence of these rituals isn’t simply unnoticed; it has a meaningful psychological impact on children, potentially leading to trauma, even if they aren’t consciously aware of it. Dr. Talkhan emphasizes that these collective memories and daily customs create an “island of safety” that shields children from life’s pressures and fosters internal stability.
Children raised with regular family rituals feel secure, even if they occasionally resist them. Conversely, their absence can lead to a persistent feeling of instability, manifesting later in behavior and social interactions.
Benefits for All Ages
These rituals aren’t solely beneficial for children. They also help dissolve differences within the family and promote a sense of closeness between parents and children. The shared experience strengthens family bonds.
Adolescents, while frequently enough expressing rejection of these rituals, subconsciously recognize their value and find reassurance in their existence as a reliable support system. They serve as a “back and bond” to which they can return when needed.
Reviving Family Traditions
Dr. Talkhan stresses the importance of reviving the “family’s wig” as a crucial element in building mental health for future generations. Prioritizing consistent family time and shared routines can provide a vital foundation for psychological well-being.
