Yin Yoga for Breakup Closure: A Personal Journey
- Months before my breakup, I wrote in my journal, I feel like my body is preparing for a long winter ahead.
- Throughout the following winter and spring, I instinctively turned to yoga, specifically the long holds of yin yoga.
- Reclaiming the city we onc shared proved difficult. I missed aspects of the relationship; he had been my best friend.
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Finding Solace in Stillness: How Yin Yoga Helped Me Heal From Heartbreak
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Published November 20, 2025 06:40AM
The Premonition and the Breakup
Months before my breakup, I wrote in my journal, I feel like my body is preparing for a long winter ahead. Looking back, I see this as confirmation that we each possess an inner knowing, especially when we listen to our bodies.
My ex and I ended things in early December. Throughout the following winter and spring, I instinctively turned to yoga, specifically the long holds of yin yoga. each Sunday evening, even amidst Denver’s snowy streets, I found solace on my mat in a vin-yin yoga class.
Reclaiming the city we onc shared proved difficult. I missed aspects of the relationship; he had been my best friend.
Before the breakup,I felt lost amidst change-job loss,career pivot,and healing past traumas. We both craved stability while simultaneously changing. I now understand that relationships are co-created, but at the time, I internalized a feeling of inadequacy.
The breakup left me heartbroken and confused, amplifying self-doubt and uncertainty.
How Yin Yoga Became My Anchor
Though I had been teaching yoga for over six months and practicing for over 10 years, I was relatively new to yin yoga.
I appreciated yin’s restorative nature, allowing me to simply show up and settle into inward-focused forward folds. It provided a space to *be* with my grief.
It wasn’t until the spring after the breakup that I understood the depth of yin’s support.I enrolled in a weekend-long yin yoga training and learned that yin yoga is rooted in principles of Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM). It stretches the connective tissue along meridians, or energy lines associated with organs. Each meridian has a unique function and connection to elements, seasons, and emotions.
In yin yoga, we explore our personal “edge” of sensation, holding poses for extended periods to stimulate these meridians and release emotional blockages.
The Meridian System and Emotional Release
Understanding the meridians provided a framework for understanding my emotional experiance. here’s a simplified overview of some key meridians and their associated emotions:
| Meridian | Associated Emotion | Season | Element |
|---|---|---|---|
| Spleen | Worry, Overthinking | late Summer | Earth |
| Kidney | Fear, Anxiety | Winter | water |
| Liver | Anger, Frustration | Spring | Wood |
| Heart | Grief, Sadness | Summer | Fire |
| Lung | Grief, Letting Go | Autumn | Metal |
During heartbreak, the Heart and Lung meridians often become particularly active, as grief and the need to release the past are prominent. Yin yoga poses targeting these meridians-like Butterfly pose (for the Heart) and Supported bridge (for the Lungs)-can facilitate emotional release.
Specific Poses and Their Benefits
Here are a few yin yoga poses that were particularly helpful during my healing process:
- Butterfly Pose (Baddha Konasana): Opens the hips and heart center,releasing stored emotions.
- Child’s Pose (Balasana): Calming and grounding, encourages surrender and self-compassion.
- Supported Bridge pose (Setu Bandhasana