MBC’s ‘Oh Eun-young Report – Marriage Hell’ featured a couple, Chen Wei-chi and Jang Ju-yeon, who struggled with financial issues in their marriage. Chen Wei-chi, a talented pianist, was forced to sell online lecture videos for income, despite his lack of passion for it. The couple had conflicting views on financial decisions, with Jang Ju-yeon feeling neglected in economic matters. Their communication breakdown was evident as they argued over money sent by Chen Wei-chi exceeding his income. Additionally, they clashed over the 80 million won borrowed from Jang Ju-yeon’s mother, which was spent on personal expenses instead of the intended purpose. Dr. Oh Eun-young diagnosed their issues as a lack of effective communication leading to misunderstandings and advised them to change their approach to addressing each other’s concerns without causing hurt.
Money Today Reporter Eun Lee | 2023.11.21 05:30
/ Photograph = MBC Broadcast ‘O Eun-young – Marriage Hell’ When the ‘Muse couple’ were clashing over screen money, Dr. Oh Eun-young, a psychiatrist, the first communication problem. On the MBC entertainment program ‘Oh Eun-young Report – Marriage Hell’, broadcast on the 20th, there is a Taiwanese couple, Chen Wei-chi (37) and Jang Ju-yeon (47), who have been married for 8 years , appeared on the show, saying they decided to get married because they loved the sound of the husband’s piano. They were a musician couple, with the husband leading piano accompaniment and the wife playing the flute.
My husband graduated from a famous music school called the National Conservatory of Music in Paris. He was a classmate of the musician Debussy and the pianist Cho Seong-jin, and graduated at the top of his class.
My husband said he could have succeeded as a pianist if he had stayed in France, but now he has to sell online lecture videos of his music school friends who have become teachers to make money. The husband admitted, “In fact, everything I do now is something I don’t want to do. I do it because I need money.”
However, the woman admitted, “I believe my husband is above him musically,” but “he was not successful in society. When it comes to making economic decisions, my husband does not participate and does not say nothing at all.”
The woman complained of financial difficulties, saying, “I have only received my salary 3 to 4 times. There was almost no income (during my marriage),” and “The only money I received correctly was from June .There was no money that I could calculate or predict.” he did.
/Photo = MBC’s ‘Oh Eun-young Report – Marriage Hell’ broadcast screen The wife tried to talk to her husband about the family economy, but the husband did not take an active part in the conversation. Her husband even sent her 1.1 million to earn more than her monthly salary of 4.5 million earned. Regarding this, the man said, “(Taiwan bank account) daily transfer limit was 2.8 million won. So, every time the transfer limit was raised, I sent 2.8 million won,” and the reason for sending more money than ‘his salary was, “Because my wife likes me if I send more. I give money to my wife.” “Because they give me too little, I keep (transfer) as much as the I could so I could live, and it continues to be in the negative,” he explained.
The woman asked if he had sent 1.1 million earning more than his monthly salary, but the man did not give a correct answer and responded by asking, “Do you feel bad if I send you a lot of money?” The woman was frustrated and said, “I don’t know what he’s going to do. He did it twice.”
The conversation was not going well, and the man argued, “You shouldn’t complain about that,” and the woman objected, “How many times will I tell you that because you don’t speak?” However, my husband “kept getting angry with me and asked, ‘Why don’t you send me money?’ ‘Why aren’t you making money?’ “You whine, ‘Why don’t I have money?'” he said, adding, “You get really upset when you don’t have money in your account.”
The woman was angry and said, “Who heard that from you and why do you always say that to me?” and “Don’t do that. It makes me feel bad.”
/Photo = Screenshot from MBC’s ‘Oh Eun-young Report – Marriage Hell’ broadcast The two also had a conflict over the 80 million won that the woman’s mother borrowed as collateral for an apartment. My husband sighed in despair, saying, “It may be several decades, but I still have to repay the loan interest of 600,000 earned.” The woman said she tried to start an accommodation business by building a house with money borrowed from her mother, but “I couldn’t do it because I didn’t have enough money, so I ended up using it for living expenses .”
The wife shocked her husband by saying that out of the 80 million won she borrowed from her mother, she spent 10 million on a trip to Australia, 15 million won on car payments, 10 million won on a fence , and 20 million won on laying a foundation to build a house.
The woman said to her confused husband, “This is how it was in the end, but that’s not the money I spent to do that from the beginning. Isn’t that what you were trying to do? To make money here?” he said, “Then you can take a loan and get some money. If I say just one word, you will talk more.” “There are so many. I’m so unlucky, I’m going to die,” he said. He said.
Eventually, the husband got frustrated and said, “I’m talking about it because I have to pay it back. Why don’t you talk about it when you spend it?” The woman said, “You’re like XXX!” and she swore, “XXX. What have you done to me?” and ended up sobering up.
In an interview with the production team, the man said, “My mother said she lent it to me, but I don’t know the details. Shouldn’t I have 80 million won, spend it all, and in the eventually I have to pay it back? My wife doesn’t seem to have much regard for my situation.”
The husband was concerned about spending more than his income, saying, “I would like to live within the money we have. The problem is how to repay it.”
The husband, who chose to go to Korea with his wife because of her father’s health problems, said that he had worked as a watermelon farmer in Bonghwa, Gyeongsangbuk-do, and that he was ready to undertake any difficult work to make money.
/ Photo = Snapshot of the ‘Oh Eun-young MBC – Marriage Hell’ report that was broadcast Dr. Oh Eun-young, “What a husband wants to say to his wife is, ‘I’m not wasting any money I give you. can do anything to make a living. But we’re like saying,’ Let’s spend what we earn.’ And when you say, ‘I can’t make money,’ it means, ‘I don’t think this is a situation where I can make good money.’ Then my wife says, ‘What are you asking me to do if I can’t make money?’ “‘I can’t make money’ is not ‘I don’t want to make money,'” he said, pointing to the couple’s conversation. He continued, “When the wife says, ‘You don’t have to earn money,’ the husband doesn’t say, ‘I’m sorry I can’t earn money,’ but when he says, ‘You always telling me to earn money,’ says the woman, ‘Am I the kind of woman who makes trouble?’ “When I say this, ‘I have to live with my children,’ I feel like I’m going to fight until I open my eyes and go to sleep,” he analyzed.
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Then he pointed out, “We don’t communicate when we need to communicate, and we start with good intentions and want to be nice to the other person, but we can’t communicate at all. If we communicate beyond what it cannot be. Communicated, we have a conversation that causes misunderstanding.”
Dr asked. From Eun-young to her husband, “Do you know what it means to be sarcastic and sarcastic?” and added, “I think you need to change your tone a bit. It means admitting, ‘I guess so.’ If you say, ‘I’m a bit like that, I’m sorry.’ “It will happen,” he advised.
He continued, “There is an expression in the West called ‘Why don’t you do this’. ‘Why don’t you do this?’ People seem to use this phrase. ‘Why don’t you leave in 50 minutes?’ “There’s a sense of difference with Korean expressions. They say, ‘You can’t do it this way?’, but if you say ‘Why don’t you do it this way?’, it seems to mean the one thing, but it’s different when you receive it.”
He said, “When talking in an intimate relationship, you have to approach the other person in a way that doesn’t hurt the other person’s feelings. The same goes for your wife. She doesn’t sympathize with your husband Although she does not like to overgeneralize and criticize certain parts, when talking to her husband, “He used that method. I think we need to change this,” she advised.
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