Jo Ji-hwan and Park Hye-mi shed tears of sympathy when they heard the diagnosis of Dr. Oh Eun-young.
On the June 13th episode of MBC’s ‘Oh Eun-Young Report – Marriage Hell’, comedian Jo Hye-Ryun’s younger brother Jo Ji-Hwan and his wife Park Hye-Min and his wife appeared as guests.
Jo Ji-hwan’s wife, Park Hye-min, quit her 11-year career as a nurse and started working as a show host in October of last year. Cho Ji-hwan was working part-time at a snack bar for 4 months. After the snack house work, he did a commerce live broadcast with Park Hye-min.
But the reality was grim. During the one hour broadcast, the two sold only three products and could not hide their bitterness. Cho Ji-hwan expressed his concern that the sales did not increase and were flat. However, Park Hye-min countered, “If you ask people who do live commerce around you, they say that one year is negative.”
Also, during the broadcast, Jo Ji-hwan, who worked hard, revealed the conflict of his heart when the broadcast was over. He said, “I don’t think there are any boundaries for my work. I don’t know who I am,” he said.
Park Hye-min said, “Didn’t your brother say that he didn’t know his identity since he was an actor? Don’t you think about finding his identity? A friend asked. Does your brother go to auditions? What do you think about that? Do you think it’s not the age to audition? Isn’t it desperate?” Jo Ji-hwan sighed, “To be honest, I’ll admit that I didn’t even try hard on acting.” Cho Ji-hwan’s filmography stopped 4 years ago.
Park Hye-min appealed, “I do it even when I can’t see. I honestly don’t want to do it at home. I want to go to the studio.
In response, Jo Ji-hwan said, “Don’t you think that there is no merit? People don’t choose you even if you put in your documents.” Then, Jo Ji-hwan said, “You look like a racehorse. A horse that doesn’t run well. If that’s the case, then don’t run like me.” In response, Park Hye-min said, “That’s why you don’t even know how to run,” and put a dagger.
After Park Hye-min quit her job as a nurse, her worries about her livelihood deepened. The two were living a difficult life because they did not have 50,000 won and borrowed it from an acquaintance.
Park Hye-min explained the reason for quitting her job as a nurse, saying, “Of course, many people want to be a nurse, and I have been working for over 10 years and I feel very rewarding. . I chose a course that works well for me. I am anxious while working at the hospital, so I call my husband. But when I ask my husband what he is doing, he says he is having a drink with an acquaintance. Then things don’t work out. The hospital keeps thinking about other things. I felt guilty, anxious, and even panicked. I thought I wanted to run away from this place.”
In response, Dr. Oh Eun-young said, “If you listen to your wife’s story, she has been the head of a girl since she was young. The younger sibling with a lot of age gaps should go to a stable job sooner rather than later, so that they can study with less burden. However, since I was young, I have been making choices for my brother for my family rather than my own desires. But I got married and got married. But I thought this man I loved was talented, so my younger brothers came before me. I was trying to support him so that he could be successful as an actor. Now, as the head of an aunt, I feel like I am living a continuous life, so it’s sad.”
Then, Dr. Oh Eun-young added, “I want someone to know this feeling, and I want to hear that you do what you want to do, but it’s sad. That’s the key.”
Park Hye-min, who shed tears at this, said, “At some point, I didn’t want to live. Even when I was in the hospital, all my colleagues knew I was the head. Hye-min-ah, you’re the head of the family. That’s why I said you can’t quit. They say it’s like ‘Crazy X.’ When I broadcast that much, I get attention, and I think I’m addicted to the feeling that this time is entirely mine.”
Oh Eun-young said, “I think it is because I have never had the experience of putting myself first in front of my family,” he said. Even if it is, there may be things that are not accepted by heart.”
Park Hye-min was also disappointed with Jo Ji-hwan, who recently showed interest in returning to farming and kept changing jobs. Park Hye-min cried, “When will a room explode? I’ve been looking forward to it for 8 years.”
In the end, Park Hye-min burst into tears and said, “You said that. You’ll be fine in a little while, so I told you to wait and be patient. But if you suddenly go down, you’re living without hope.”
Cho Ji-hwan said, “(As an actor), there were times when I didn’t get paid because I was hurt because I didn’t get paid, and there were times when I was told that I had borrowed it. I wanted to do a job, but I didn’t want to do this job.”
He continued, “When I was working with Eungsoo hyung in a drama, I was fine. I made quite a bit of money. But strangely, things didn’t go well after we got married.”
Oh Eun-young, who heard this, asked, “Everything was good, until we got married, but there are stories that things didn’t work out after we got married. What do you think is the reason?”
Jo Ji-hwan confessed, “I try not to make excuses for men, but the number of meetings with industry officials has halved.
When asked Kim Eung-soo, “Why did you want to become an actor?”, Jo Ji-hwan answered, “I just wanted to follow my sister.”
Oh Eun-young said, “As an actor, the proportion of what kind of actor I become, what kind of acting I do and what kind of work I leave behind should be much greater, but my husband seems to have tried to become an actor a lot as a means of socializing and socializing. Of course, not all of them.” .
Park Hye-min, who heard this, sympathized, saying, “Even if I had a good opportunity, there were times when I couldn’t get the role if I was hurt by someone.”
Lastly, Oh Eun-young said, “What are the stimuli that touch my husband’s heart, when a director who feels like a father or people who think he is a superior in the film industry put out their hands, it’s like hating my father, but I feel like I want to acknowledge my warm touch and me. However, when the conflict and pain in human relationships grow, I become angry. Why do people always betray me and use the back of my head? It hurts. But because of this temperament, conflicts arise, but sometimes it is hard.” He said, “If I feel like someone will take care of me, it’s like my father wants me and my family to protect me and my family, which I wanted so much when I was little, and it makes me want to not attack.” “I don’t have time to think about whether this is a job that suits my aptitude, but I answer right away and leave. I originally intended to be an actor, but I become a person who clings only to human relationships.”
Jo Ji-hwan said, “It’s accurate.” He said, “There was a time when I got the role I really wanted in the audition. Then I had to study the role, but from that day on, I didn’t study and I get along with the staff. When I shoot, the acting is clumsy. I’m thinking,” he self-diagnosed.
Senior Kim Eung-soo, who heard this, said, “I don’t have the urgency to become an actor. I also did plays. If I played for 9 years, I had to take my position. The foundation to stand in one year is to stand on the strength that has been cultivated over the past nine years.”
Oh Eun-young said, “My wife’s basic tendency is to be a sacrificial and altruistic person. That’s why her job as a nurse is right for her. However, medical personnel such as doctors and nurses need to be precise. But what a show host needs is outstanding. It’s not because he’s incompetent, it’s because of his habit from his previous job. If he breaks that mold, he’ll become a really fun show host. Besides, it’s sad.”
Park Hye-min sympathized with this, admitting, “The people who monitor me said, “I have a bit of brilliance, but I’m half smart. I have to go around a bit more, but the tempo doesn’t catch on because it’s fun, but it’s fun and it’s sad.”
Oh Eun-young said, “If it were me, I would follow Hye-ryun Jo. Isn’t it family? You have to follow all schedules, observe and learn. You have to learn even that way. Otherwise, there is a possibility that you may not break the mold. . In this way, I make an accurate plan and work hard in all directions, my family sincerely supports me, and I think concrete plans like these are necessary.”
He added, “I think I should set a time limit and work hard to achieve my dream, and then prepare the next plan.”
Meanwhile, ‘Eun-Young Oh Report’, which is aired every Monday at 10:30 pm, is a real talkmentary that observes the daily lives of couples who have become less good than others, and they directly appear in the studio to share the concerns of the couple’s conflicts.
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