Lena Dunham Reflects on Marriage, ​Trust Issues

​ Updated June 04, 2025

Lena Dunham, the creator of “Girls,” has ‍revealed lingering doubts about her marriage to musician Luis Felber, despite their 2021 wedding.In an​ essay for Vogue, Dunham, 39, explored her past relationships and admitted to ongoing struggles with trust.

Dunham,reflecting on her “boy‌ crazy” past,recalled a brief but intense connection with a man named Craig before meeting Felber,38,on a blind date in January 2021. The couple married less than a year later.

Lena⁢ Dunham in 2024

Lena Dunham⁣ in 2024.

The admission comes as Dunham prepares for the July 10 premiere of her new Netflix series, “Too Much,” a‌ rom-com co-produced by Felber. The series follows a New Yorker who moves to London after a breakup, mirroring Dunham’s ​own experiences.

Before‌ felber,Dunham ⁤dated musician Jack⁢ Antonoff for⁣ five years,from 2012 to 2017. She described​ their split as amicable, noting in a‍ 2018 Vogue essay that⁣ they had “evolved separately.” Dunham also revealed a brief engagement to an unnamed man following her breakup with Antonoff.

Lena⁤ Dunham and Jack Antonoff in 2014

Lena ⁤Dunham and Jack antonoff in 2014.

‘Even now, I can’t‍ be fully certain.It’s not that I doubt my husband or our life together—I have grate confidence in both. It’s just that after repeatedly crashing against the harsh landscapes of male attention,I reached a point⁤ where I stopped trusting myself,’‍ Dunham said.

What’s next

Dunham’s new series, “Too Much,” promises to explore themes of love, relationships, and self-finding, drawing from her personal experiences. ‍The show will be available ‌on Netflix starting July 10.