A Glimpse into Family Dynamics: The Unequal Bedrooms
A young Chinese woman recently visited her boyfriend’s home and was taken aback by the striking differences in the bedrooms of the three sons in the household. This eye-opening experience shed light on the challenges faced by “middle children” and the complexities of family dynamics.
Located in Guangdong province, the two and a half storey house exuded a sense of spaciousness, yet the bedrooms told a different story. The eldest son’s room boasted a large living area, while the youngest son’s room had a smaller space for leisure activities. However, the most surprising discovery was the lack of a proper room for the middle son, with no door to provide privacy.
Upon revealing her astonishment, the woman learned that her boyfriend had resided in this room for 15 years. Despite his acceptance of the situation, questions arose about the fairness of the living arrangements within the household.
A Room Divided: The Impact on Family Relationships
As the story gained attention, concerns were raised about the future implications of such unequal treatment within the family. The lack of a dedicated space for the middle son sparked discussions about the potential for conflict as the sons begin to marry and establish their own families.
It begs the question: would any woman be willing to marry into a family with such unequal living conditions? The potential for marital discord and familial rifts looms large, raising concerns about the long-term unity of the family.
The unequal bedrooms in this household serve as a reminder of the lasting impact of familial dynamics on the individuals involved, sparking conversations about the need for equity and fairness within family structures.
A young woman goes to her lover’s house for the first time. She is amazed. The bedroom is different from her brothers and sisters. It is like the sky and the abyss. How painful is the life of the ” middle child” like this?!
A Chinese girl travels to visit her boyfriend’s house for the first time. and he was astonished by the bedrooms of the three sons of the house, which were so different from the sky and the abyss. I immediately understood that it is difficult for parents to treat their children equally.
According to the report, it was found that My lover’s house is in Guangdong province. It is a two and a half storey building. Bare plaster walls The floor is covered with tiles. The area of this building is quite large, probably more than 120 square meters, but since the house was built a while ago, it looks a little old. All the doors and windows were dated.
On the first floor, there is a living room, kitchen, and various rooms and my boyfriend’s parents’ bedroom is also on this ground floor. As for the three sons, their bedrooms are on the second floor of the house.
The bedroom where the eldest son lived was quite large, and there was also a relatively large living room outside the room. Which can be set up as a living room with a TV or coffee table. Just like my youngest son’s room. There is also a living room. But the size is smaller. It can only be used for drinking tea and chatting. Not suitable for TV or sofa installation.
The room where the boyfriend’s older brother and younger brother lived didn’t look bad, so she expected that the boyfriend’s bedroom should be a room with a living room, right? …unfortunately, she was wrong. The thing that surprised me the most was the room of the middle son of this house. There isn’t even a door!
It seems that her boyfriend’s bedroom is in one corner of the house. And there wasn’t even a door to the room. Until he told his family he was taking his girlfriend home. The parents ordered a wooden board and a curtain to use as a temporary barrier. causing both of them to have to live in a shabby room with room dividers that lack privacy like this
Her boyfriend had lived in this room for 15 years and was already familiar with it. There was only a bed, a table and a cabinet in the room. It’s not that he didn’t want to buy furniture. But there’s only room to put them. The distance between the bed and the wall is barely enough for a person to stand.
“Did you draw lots and get this room?” The girl couldn’t help but laugh at her lover’s fate. Why were his siblings in a large room with a living room inside? This is not fair. But the boyfriend’s explanation is He didn’t blame his parents for choosing this bedroom for him. But I blame myself for being stupid…
When the issue was announced What netizens do not understand is In a family with three brothers and sisters and having a family background like this Will any woman dare to marry him? Think about it: after your son gets married, the young man does not have a house of his own. The person who marries first will definitely get a better room. And there will be a lot of conflict. In the end, will the family be separated?
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