▲ A view from Channel A. ⓒ Channel A
Parents raising a 9-year-old daughter (golden side) and a 7-year-old son visited Channel A, which was broadcast on the 24th. The goldfish in the observation video was frightened. They waved their hands and trembled like an aspen tree, and lived with the words “I’m scared!” It was to the point where it was hard to watch because it was pathetic to see him immersed in fear while shouting that he was scared. For what reason? What does the gold side fear?
The mother was lucky that the symptoms of the cracked tooth appeared since 7 months ago. One day, when I asked the reason for skipping the academy, it started when a cat jumped out of the empty lot and I couldn’t go to the academy. Originally, he was afraid of animals, but now his everyday life was impossible. The help of Dr. Oh Eun- young desperately. The observational video seemed to require more viewing for proper analysis.
When her mother left her seat for a while to go to school for her younger brother, the gold tooth, left alone, felt uneasy. In a tense state, an announcement from the apartment management office came through the speaker, and the goldsmith was surprised and startled by the sound. Finally, he covered his ears and burst into tears. She called her mother and sobbed, and her mother had to return home in a hurry. The goldsmith’s hands were wet with sweat.
“First of all, I think a child’s day will be very difficult.” (From Eun-young)
And that wasn’t all. Dad explained that the gold tooth was afraid of the bathroom fan because it was noisy, so he couldn’t even go into the bathroom and unplug the fan. Shin Ae-ra had previously appeared as a goldfish who felt afraid of certain noises, but she was worried because this was the first time she reacted to any kind of everyday noise. Oh Eun-young also burned her will to solve the problem, saying that it is a problem that must be solved for the growth of the child.
Then, what are the sounds of life that gold teeth fear? ① Hand dryer (hand dryer) ② Car horn sound ③ Car warning sound ④ Mosquito sounds, etc. If this was a 3-4 year old child, it would be natural to be surprised at the lack of sound experience, but a 9 year old child is an age where sounds that are often found in everyday life should be accepted comfortably. Looking at the age or the symptoms, an urgent solution was needed.
On the other hand, the hairdresser who went to the beauty salon showed no discomfort at the sound of the hairdryer. Is the sound of the powerful motor okay? They also showed a comfortable response to the sound of scissors brushing their ears. As such, it was difficult to grasp the robust taste of the gold tooth. My mother said that the golden tooth is not frightened by the restaurant bell or the sound of the TV, and does not react to the noise that it usually does not like when it comes out of the TV.
I’m afraid of the noise and even sweating
▲ A view from Channel A. ⓒ Channel A
Oh Eun-young explained that she recognized the characteristics of the sound that the gold tooth was afraid of, and that it seemed to be afraid of ‘sudden sounds’ and ‘significant mechanical sounds’. Therefore, it was necessary to understand how the gold jig works. Even in the case of flats announcements, I’m scared because the process itself can’t be seen in my head. Grasping directly at the mechanism seemed very important to the goldfish, which had difficulty integrating auditory and visual thought.
In the evening, Goldsmith was startled when he heard a noise coming from the electric rice cooker. I was already in a state of panic and crying in my father’s arms. It can be a difficult situation for parents to understand. In the end, Dad had to turn off the rice cooker. Why is she afraid of even the sound of the rice cooker? I couldn’t let my garden down anywhere, at home and outside. It would be hard on the golden side, but it was also a burden from the parents’ point of view.
“I have a phobia of crackling noises.” (From Eun-young)
Sound phobia is a symptom of a pathological fear of sounds or ambient noises, and the causes include ① trauma ② hypersensitive hearing ③ specific diseases such as the autism spectrum. The various possibilities needed to be kept open and analyzed. The gold tooth visited an otolaryngologist and was diagnosed with any functional abnormalities as a result of a hearing test. In the end, it was speculated that it was due to psychological reasons such as anxiety.
The next day, the mother told her to take the elevator first and go down to the first floor, and she said yes. However, when I stood in front of the elevator, I got scared and rolled my feet. The fear increased to the extreme, and I began to hit my head and my body. The gold tooth’s anxiety became unbearable, and the neighbors opened the door to hear the cry. In the end, my mother rushed over and calmed me down.
I thought I had calmed down a bit, but when the elevator door opened, I was terrified again. He saw a villager holding a puppy. The gold tooth covered her ears and she was scared as she was wrapped in her mother’s arms. Outside the flat, I saw a pigeon and ran away in panic. Oh Eun-young said she found an important point, and explained that the fear of gold teeth is not limited to sound. Fear of the object that goes beyond the sound and makes the sound.
The reason Eunyoung Oh told me to stop taking ADHD medication for a while
▲ A view from Channel A. ⓒ Channel A
Oh Eun-young asked a few questions, saying that the fear factor would increase as time goes by, so we should help as soon as possible. The mother replied that she had been taking ADHD medication since last summer because she had trouble concentrating since last year. Oh Eun-young’s eyes flashed. He explained that taking ADHD medication would have improved his ability to concentrate, and as his ability to concentrate increased, a lot of information would have been contained in his head.
Oh Eun-young analyzed that the fear-dominated gold tooth is taking attention medicine, so he is flooded with an uncontrollable amount of stimulating information and goes into a state of panic. Therefore, it is recommended to stop taking ADHD medication for the time being. Mother was concerned about the possibility of autism spectrum in the gold tooth, but Eun-young Oh saw that possibility as low. Right now, the golden snail is not using its limited energy for growth and development, but is always running out of energy because it is focused on fear.
Instead, Oh Eun-young drew attention to the mother’s parenting attitude which frustrates her child. My mother did not deal with her feelings well, and became impatient when she did not follow her heart. As a result, he unknowingly engraved the fearful goldfish with negative language. Oh Eun-young analyzed two reasons why mothers do not handle emotions well. There were too many worries about the gold tooth, and the sense of responsibility was too strong.
As much as she wanted to overcome her fear as soon as possible and spend happy time with her family, her mother also needed to change. Oh Eun-young advised that you should read your child’s feelings as much as you love them. O Eun-young’s golden prescription was a ‘horror diet solution’. I immediately rushed to the management office and advised them to understand the mechanism of the announcement. This is because if the goldsmith understands the situation, the fear will decrease a little bit at a time.
The golden jig that visited the control office was trained in hearing imaging. I personally experienced the principle of the scary sound, grabbed the microphone and broadcast, and got rid of my fear. Dad also helped me overcome my fear of sound by helping me understand the principle of a ventilator. To get used to the sound of life, mother began to collect sounds with the gold tooth. I walked around the house and listened to discover the identity of the sound.
For fear empathy training, the mother climbed onto the bungee jumping platform. The frightened mother could only understand how the gold tooth felt. I realized how indifferent it was to say “What are you afraid of?” Then, the family walked with Geumjjok on the way to school. The fear of going to school, which was just scary, disappeared. I decided to practice again and again until the day I wasn’t afraid of the outside world.
He carried a walkie-talkie and communicated with his mother, and managed to get to school alone in the elevator. He was still very nervous about the unfamiliar noise, but whenever it happened, his mother calmly explained the source of the noise and reassured him. Finally, the last mission, the golden one, managed to return home on its own. Mother hugged the gold tooth and returned alone. I support Geumjjok-i’s solo stand-up.
