No matter how much time has passed, there has been no reduction in the number of parents who are keen to marry off their daughters without allowing them to live on their own. Those who propagate the idea that marriage is the only important thing in women’s lives and force them to do so. There are many girls who have to put aside all their dreams for life and finally have to give in to the demands of their parents. A video of a new bride breaking down in tears thinking that all her dreams for the future have been destroyed by marriage is coming out of China.
In the video, the bride can be seen wearing her wedding clothes on her wedding day. The girl says she was not thinking about marriage. But her parents only dreamed of her marriage. They are getting old. A situation where all the relatives tell him only one thing, which is marriage. In addition to all this, the girl says that the neighbors spread gossip about her as she remains unmarried.
When the pressure from all four sides became unbearable, she decided to marry a person she met through love without thinking about her interests and her future. The girl says that although she was not completely interested in the person she found, she married because she had no other satisfaction. The new bride cries and says that this marriage is only for the peace of mind of her parents and she feels that her future is gone.
Many are responding to the video by sympathizing with the girl’s condition. A girl who enters a new life with such despair will never be able to find happiness in that life. But many people point out that after marriage, others will think that her life has become happy. Another notes that forced marriage is extremely painful.
But not a few people advise that one should give more importance to one’s own affairs than others. Life is too short. They also ask if it is necessary to sacrifice your own life to make others happy. It is clear in the video that the girl is in dire distress. Others also raise the question if it is not a decision that hurts him in this state of mind where he cannot love the person he has chosen as a groom.
English Summary: “Married Just to Please Parents”: Chinese Bride Breaks Down at Her Wedding
