“No matter how stupid”
Kim Eung-soo was furious with her husband’s words.
In MBC’s ‘Oh Eun-young Report – Marriage Hell’, broadcast on May 1, ‘Myanmar Celebrity Wife VS Kkan Tribe Manager Husband – Warring States Couple’ appeared in the studio.
Chan Chan, the celebrity from Myanmar, is currently teaching Korean to the people of Myanmar and is doing activities to reveal his thoughts on various broadcasts to help the situation in his country. It was an act to help the people of Myanmar, but because of this, Chan Chan was blacklisted outside the eyes of the Myanmar military and is currently in a situation where he cannot return to his country.
As a result, Chan Chan suffered from neuralgia and anxiety, took medicine, and made extreme choices, but her husband said in front of others, “My wife should eat a lot of Mohinga when she goes to Myanmar. You have to eat a lot when you go to prison,” he jokes. When asked, “Does this mean you’re going to jail?” the man replied, “Yes. That’s how I said it around,” making Kim Eung-soo angry. Kim Eung-soo said, “I don’t talk about bean rice with Koreans, but my wife’s situation means that I have to go to Myanmar and eat bean rice, no matter how ridiculous it is.”
Even if the woman is shedding tears in the situation that Myanmar is facing, “Why are you crying? A husband says, “Crying won’t solve the problem.” My wife said, “Every day I hear stories of people dying or being captured. My body is safe, but I am anxious every day. It got to the point where I wondered how I would have thought about giving birth when I was away from my parents. I kept breaking and I felt like I wasn’t a woman and it was hard, but my husband doesn’t seem to have as much trouble as I do.” frustrated. It’s like talking to a wall .”
The wife asks, “Is it so hard to tell you it’s going to be hard?”, but the husband responds, “You have to be patient. You keep whining.”
Dr. Oh Eun-young, who was watching the video, presented an example to her husband. Dr said. Oh Eun-young, “For example, a child falls down while riding a bicycle and says, ‘Dad is sick.’ However, it’s not even red. What would you do then?” he asked. When the husband replies, “It’s okay, get up again and move on,” Dr. Oh Eun-young and Kim Eung-soo express frustration, saying, “I still don’t understand,” or “I thought I understood earlier. ”
Dr said. From Eun-young, “Whose idea is it that you’re not hurt? Father’s idea The child is not seriously injured, but he is crying. Why? What was he thinking?” he asked again. The man surprised the panelists by replying, “Let me know again”, “Help me?”, “I think you are just spoiling yourself”. In the end, Dr. Oh Eun-young the answer to her husband. He said, “I fell and was surprised. Children go out when they fall. I was not hurt, but I cried from surprise. As her husband said, she whines and cries. But someone like my husband said, ‘You are my brother. how old are you Look, even the younger brothers and sisters don’t cry.” If you sympathize with the sick, you think the child is weak. So you can’t see the child’s heart. Like wearing black blocking glasses, you can’t see the child’s heart. My husband can’t really sympathize with me.”
Dr. went. Oh Eun-young continued, “The mind is an emotion that arises from within. There are also people who cannot distinguish between thoughts, feelings and actions. I think we need to practice a lot of empathy by accepting, accepting and acknowledging.”
Viewers who watched the broadcast showed reactions such as “What do you mean by that?”, “What empathy…”, “Wow, it’s frustrating”.
Meanwhile, ‘national mentor’ Dr. Oh Eun-young, this time he answers a couple! MBC’s ‘Oh Eun-young Report – Marriage Hell’ is a real talk-of-the-mind program where couples observe the daily lives of couples who have gone worse than others and appear in the studio to share their concerns about marital conflict, aired every year. Monday at 10:30pm.
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